Eldercare Book Focusing Specifically on Woman
Taking Care of Mom And Dad
I’d like to let you know about the recently published, first elder-care book to focus specifically on women. The Daughter Trap by author Laurel Kennedy is the first book to tackle the subject matter directly.
As our parents age, we are forced to make some tough choices regarding their living arrangements. Not all options fit our requirements, our lifestyle, our parent’s need, or our financial ability to pay for the arrangements. If you decide, for now, that the best arrangement is for your mother or father to come live in your home, then you’ve got another thing to think about – making your house a safe place for him or her.
Twenty-five percent of Baby Boomers now have a senior parent living with them, and almost a third of American workers care for their parents. But what is rarely talked about is the fact that Boomer elder care responsibilities almost always fall to the daughters, who are also caught between the competing demands of a working spouse, school-aged kids and a full-time career.
Many adult children are thrown into the situation of care giving because of a medical health crisis of a loved one, essentially altering the family dynamics. While multi-generational families were commonplace a generation ago, our society has become more global, and such is not the case now.
My late mother-in-law chose to live with my husband’s sister, and our family recognized first-hand the responsibilities of having an aging parent move in.
Longevity runs in my family and my own grandmother lived to be 101. Although independent until age 95, I became her court-appointed conservator, responsible for her personal and medical decisions – all while working full-time and raising a young family. My brother lived out-of-state.
Laurel Kennedy is a nationally recognized expert on Boomer issues, and is the founder of the Boomer consulting firm Age Lessons.
Kennedy defines the “daughter trap” as:
Daughters get trapped into taking care of their parents for two reasons – everyone assumes they will, and women go along with it. We believe elder care is a daughter’s option, not an obligation.
The author answers such questions as:
- Who does the daughter trap effect?
- Why should anyone care?
- Legal responsibilities of adult children caring for parents
- What is the personal toll of elder care
- What role do men play in caring for aging parents
The book speaks throughout in the voice of women caught in the daughter trap who share their experiences in hope of helping others.
The book covers four areas:
1] what the women wished they knew before getting into it
2] what they learned by doing it and want to share
3] the price paid because of it
4] future developments to help the next wave of caregivers
Drawing on years of original research as well as interviews with over 200 care-giving women, The Daughter Trap not only identifies the problem but also provides concrete and actionable solutions with takeaway lessons readers can apply to their own lives.
Mother’s Day is coming up – whether for your own benefit, or for someone you care about, put this book on your “reading list.”
Available at: Amazon
Author: Laurel Kennedy
Thomas Dunne Books
Moomette’s Magnificents is hosting a Giveaway Contest! For a chance to win, there will be one (1) winner of the book, The Daughter Trap.
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